It' hard to accept our mistakes especially when we are to blame for the breakup. I guess it's just human nature. We blame others first before we look at ourselves. Moving on is another matter. Some people would find it easier to move on if they think the other partner is to blame for the break up.

Why should any body accept a mistake that one has not done? It is not justifiable if only one person is held for a bad relationship.

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That works both ways though... some people blame themselves before they blame others and even when told otherwise they might still think it's their fault. Some people are so manipulative with things it's crazy!

I think we only want to see the good side of the people we love at first until we can't take it anymore or we realize that what we're doing to ourself is wrong. That's the time when break ups start to happen.

I think that alot of the time people react differently, myself i try and immediatly identify who is to blame, and if it is my I try and find a fault elsewhere, as i am often not able to accept i am at fault.

When you are at fault, it's hard to accept it because you made a bad thing happen. In time, you realize you just have to accept the blame and try not to repeat the same mistake again.

Mistakes happen unexpectedly. One would never wishfully make mistakes. We act as if everything that we do are right. In such case, it is hard to accept that we did something wrong!

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it cannot be accepted as such everyone must maintain there identity forgiveness is necessary...but to a little extent

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Yeah human nature is soo complicated, man!!
why don't they just learn from their mistakes..after all life's not a bed of roses!! so you better compromise,,live your life and forget the past, whatever was wrong..and focus on the present!! because what you are to become tomorrow depends on your today!!