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Old 03-21-2006, 02:48 PM
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All through my childhood, and even still today, I realize how unhappy my parents are. My dad is just a leech, and my mom allows it. All they ever do is fight, and lie to eachother. This is NOT a healthy relationship - how can you base something on lies? How can I fix this?
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Old 03-22-2006, 01:27 AM
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I think the problem is not just what you see now. The lies could just be the reason of some other problem. This you have to find out and make them deal with it. Or maybe it could only take communication, really talking to each other to solve their problem.
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Old 03-22-2006, 06:41 AM
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i think they were tied to live so you dont worry so much about it and concentrate how happy you can make your life
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Old 03-22-2006, 02:43 PM
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Youc ant fix it, somethings arent made to be fixed but you can express to tehm how unhappy it makes you and they should stop or get a divorce...and that it has effected you for a long time. Some people are nto made to be together and kids would liek it better if they werent together and see alt he fighting.
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Old 03-23-2006, 05:07 AM
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do they put you in the middle at all? If they were to put you into the middle it would be easier to explain to them that you dont apprichiate fighting through them, let them know how much it hurts you. Now if you are just on the side lines and see the fighting it may be harder to bring up, maybe take them out to lunch and just say something like mum dad it really upsets me when you guys argue so much. They could have just not realized that they fougt that much. You never know. However remebmer that in every healthy relationship there are a few arguments
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Old 03-23-2006, 07:24 AM
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I think you try telling them how it makes you feel. Sometime the parents love for a child makes them want to change their actions. Then make them sort their issues by themselves and hope it works out for them.
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Old 03-26-2006, 03:08 AM
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Actually I don't think youcan fix it. But you can try to make them fix their problem. Just tell them how you are hurt by their actions. It might make them realize that they are already hurting you and make them agree to be better parents and a better couple also.
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Old 04-12-2006, 12:24 AM
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all you can do is make them realize what they are doing and how it's hurtful to you...but you can't actually fix things for them...
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Old 04-12-2006, 12:36 AM
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They must really solve their issues first. Only them can do this but you can try to make them do it...
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Old 04-12-2006, 01:47 AM
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Show them you love them both and tell them they are hurting you. This could make them stop and reflect of their actions and maybe they could change.
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