My parents divorced and after my dad got married to another women... When i went to france to live with my dad i was not considering this women as my step mum!!!!! never! She doesn`t have any right on me ... its not that i hate her no, we had good times together but i don`t want to accept that she`s my step mum... For me she`s just the girlfriend of my dad... Even if my mum get married to someone else i won`t considerate this man as my step dad... just his boyfriend... But I would accept that my mum got married... Some children doesn`t accept when their parents gets remarried... But they have to think that they have the right to be happy again ... the most important is to see that ur mum or dad is happy !!