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Old 03-21-2006, 02:10 PM
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I've been with my partner for two years, and I hate to think what I'd do if we broke up. Sometimes it feels like all that we ever do is fight and I get worried that we -will- break up because of it.. its a scary thought. He's basically all I've ever had and I was wondering if something -did- happen how would you get over it?
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Old 03-22-2006, 02:15 PM
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Time heals the heart but everyone gets over it at soem poitn or another it just may take more time for others.
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Old 03-22-2006, 08:43 PM
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TO get over someone just remember the absolute worst thing they did ito you then mull over it. It will very soon destroy the person inside your own mind and make u glad to have split up with him/her
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Old 03-23-2006, 01:00 PM
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Before you think about how you would get over him, think about how to save your relationship! Go to councelling talk to each other, see exaclty what the other partners plans are for each other, if you are thinking how to get over him then you are in the absolutley wroung way of thinking. Think of how much you love him and how much you want to save your relationship!
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Old 03-23-2006, 01:28 PM
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Before you think about how you would get over him, think about how to save your relationship! Go to councelling talk to each other, see exaclty what the other partners plans are for each other, if you are thinking how to get over him then you are in the absolutley wroung way of thinking. Think of how much you love him and how much you want to save your relationship!
I know what you mean here. A lot of people get that thing wrong... Saving a relationship really should come first, unless you really are just fed up and don't want it anymore, I think. Personally, I've never been to counselling, but I think friends are great shrinks sometimes! ;)
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Old 03-23-2006, 01:30 PM
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TO get over someone just remember the absolute worst thing they did ito you then mull over it. It will very soon destroy the person inside your own mind and make u glad to have split up with him/her
I know how that goes. That's how I deal with things like this. Nice to know I'm not the only one who thinks/acts this way!
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Old 03-25-2006, 12:27 AM
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Before you think about how you would get over him, think about how to save your relationship! Go to councelling talk to each other, see exaclty what the other partners plans are for each other, if you are thinking how to get over him then you are in the absolutley wroung way of thinking. Think of how much you love him and how much you want to save your relationship!
I agree. Think positive. Try to resolve your issues first. Maybe you won't have to think about getting over the guy.
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Old 03-25-2006, 06:23 AM
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Yeah. Don't think of getting over him yet. Try talking to him instead so you can remedy problems and have a better relationship.
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Old 03-25-2006, 07:41 AM
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Don't use it all the time though mindthedoor, it leaves you bitter and twisted, but a good lorg term remedy.
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Old 03-25-2006, 12:53 PM
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great advice dilbug!
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