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Old 03-20-2006, 07:01 AM
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My friend is confused. Well, he's been courting two girls a time. The first one, he says, he really loves. The other is his plan b. But it was plan b who first agreed to be his girlfriend. NOw he's confused whether to stop seeing his first choice and just be with plan b or should he continue seeing the other girl. What should he do?
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Old 03-20-2006, 02:12 PM
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i know he is literally confused ask him to be away from both then ask him to decide with whom to stay
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Old 03-31-2006, 02:12 PM
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Yeah. I think he should be with the one who he loves or loves most. It would be unfair to the girl if he will still be harboring feelings for another girl.
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Old 03-31-2006, 11:42 PM
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Yeah. I guess he has to distance himself from them first, only then he'll realize who really loves.
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Old 12-26-2006, 09:08 AM
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I think he should not have a choice in the matter and they dump him, he is dirty to treat ladies like this, what is up with men having all these girls on the side anyway?

If he truly loved "A" then he would not be with "B", and to call these people by letters just goes to show how ridiculous this all sounds!
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Old 12-26-2006, 11:04 AM
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well he seems to be quite in a complex situation, but i think that the guy should decide who he actually loves, what's the use of going out with someone when you love someone else, so i think that he should decide first who he truely loves!!!!
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Old 01-06-2007, 03:10 PM
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i must say that your friend is a very cheap person. what is this thing of plan a or plan b. he thinks he is playing a game on his pc or what?? this is like my dear. once these girls know that one of them is plan a and the other is plan b he will be kicked by both at the same time and so hard that he will have to look for a plan c to escape. so tell him to look for a plan c for the time being
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Old 01-09-2007, 10:05 AM
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i think he should be honest with himself, he should ask himself who he actually loves and who he wishes to be with, i guess after he has got his answer he'll be able to know with whom he will want to be and by this way he'll be able to take a proper decision!!!!!
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Old 01-09-2007, 10:37 AM
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Wowzzz, Plan A and Plan B!! At least he's honest about that. I agree with uuh...who's that..avant yeah. If he really loved the Plan A,then Plan B would not exist It's normal to be lost in such a situation, I'm sure he himself doesn't know what he's looking for. almost a year since this happened, has he managed to sort this out?? We'll know it in the next episode, when the fairgo'sback!!! LOL
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Old 01-09-2007, 03:10 PM
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My friend is confused. Well, he's been courting two girls a time. The first one, he says, he really loves. The other is his plan b. But it was plan b who first agreed to be his girlfriend. NOw he's confused whether to stop seeing his first choice and just be with plan b or should he continue seeing the other girl. What should he do?

he should stop seeing the "plan b" girl. That would be selfish. You think this "plan b" girl wants to be the runner up?

and the fact that he's courting 2 girls, it sounds like the "plan b" girl deserves better than him. He's a dog.

but something is funny. What kind of guy comes on here seeking advice for his friend? I think you are the guy in this situation and you don't want a good tongue lashing.
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