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03-19-2006, 06:35 AM
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My friend has high ambitions for her boyfriend so she encouraged to go to a bigger city to work. At first everything was fine. Then a year later, the calls became less frequent. He hardly comes home anymore. It was only a month ago that she found out he has a girlfriend there already. She was really hurt but she couldn't help but blame herself. She's thinking maybe it was her fault for encouraging him to go there. Is she really to blame for this?
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03-20-2006, 02:05 AM
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Maybe but not entirely. It was her boyfriend who destroyed the relationship by having another girlfreind, not her. She was only being supportive and even sacrificed for him by agreeing to have him away all the time.
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10-17-2006, 03:38 PM
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I do not think that it was her fault.She only wanted her boyfriend to be more happy and prosperous.It was the boyfriend who choose to have another girlfriend there.
I think that the girl should consider herself lucky to get rid of such a cheater.In reality this is a blessing in disguise.
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10-17-2006, 03:52 PM
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i think that the girl should not blame her for what has happened.It is not her fault.She only wanted her boyfriend to be better off.It is the guy that is a cheater in this situation and the girl could not have known that.
She should forget this guy as soon as possible.
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10-17-2006, 04:06 PM
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She should not blame herself for that.She could not know beforehand that the guy will cheat her.It is not her fault.As howhow has said she should consider herself lucky because it is better that they split now than after the relationship has become more serious.It will have been more painful then.
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10-17-2006, 04:09 PM
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Quote:
 It's not interesting. You're commenting on something which happened a few months ago
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