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Old 03-19-2006, 03:53 AM
cicada26 cicada26 is offline
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I have this friend. She's in love with a common friend but this guy is in love with some other friend we have. What should she do?
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Old 03-19-2006, 06:23 AM
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I think your friend should find out if the other girl likes the guy. If she does, then forget about the guy. She can't do anything about it.
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Old 03-20-2006, 03:44 AM
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She should just forget about her feelings for the guy. She is only bound to be hurt in the process if she continue harboring feelings for the guy.
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Old 06-26-2006, 10:45 AM
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Oh familiar and yet complicated situation...don't you know that love is always like this, you love someone...who loves someone else...LOL I don't think there's really anything that can be done...have you read Shakespears 'A Midsummer's Night Dream'? It's pretty well the same situation. I guess if everyone keeps his feelings for himself then nothing is going happen except that some people will be nourishing secret hopes that could hurt them later if these same hopes are torn apart...for a triangle relationship always ends this way, you understand what I mean? If ever your friends should be heart-broken then I sure they will be able to rely on you to comfort them cheer up.
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Old 06-26-2006, 11:33 AM
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since you are all friends well i don't think this should be a problem to make the three people understand. Among friends i guess i might be much easier to sorted out.
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Old 06-27-2006, 12:58 AM
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It's a bit complicated for me. But I think she can just let go of her feelings for the guy.
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Old 06-27-2006, 07:35 AM
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If she doesn't want any complications in her friendship, she has to let go of her feelings.
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Old 06-27-2006, 09:25 AM
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Nothing actually. She should just let things go naturally. The guy likes her friend so she must respect it.
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Old 06-27-2006, 10:10 AM
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she should understand the guy whom she is fond of is with someone else, if she doesnot want to suffer she better steps back
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Old 06-27-2006, 10:23 AM
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I think the girl should tell him how she feels..Everything's fair in love so?? Who knows the guy would stop chasing the other one then..
Yeah she really ought to at least give it a try before giving up,,tomorrow she might repent
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