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Old 03-19-2006, 03:44 AM
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I have this friend. At first, she just went out with this guy because she was free and she likes it when he takes her out. They actually have fun but she doesn't love him, she says. Anyway, they became an item after a month. My friend said, she agreed to be his girlfriend because she just wants somebody in her life so she will not feel lonely. The guy was so in love with her and was really a good boyfriend from what I can see. But his ex came into the picture. My friend was really jealous and mad at the girl. Is it possible that my friend had fallen in love with the guy?
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Old 03-19-2006, 06:29 AM
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I think she may have developed some feelings for him. This happens to some people. The more they spend time together, the more fond your friend became of the guy, then the fondness could have developed further, into love.
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Old 03-20-2006, 03:40 AM
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Sometimes love is developed when a person gets to see the how much s/he is loved by the other person. And sometimes the risk of losing the other person makes them to realize how important the person has become in their lives. This is happened to your friend, I think.
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Old 07-17-2006, 12:07 PM
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yeah that's possible but it may also be something else, girls are sometimes really possessive, even with their friends, so she just may not liking that the ex is interfering between them or something like that!
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Old 07-18-2006, 06:05 AM
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I agree with Fairgo!! She may have devel;oped feeling for him but she's not yet realise how much in love she is with him!! Howver if the guy is reall in love with her like you said i don't think that the ex should nor would have a long stay!!
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Old 07-18-2006, 06:18 AM
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If she is in love or not, what difference does it make knowing that nothing good will result out of it, love cannot come out of pretending..
maybe she was too much in her acting that she doesn't even know about her own feelings now!
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Old 08-21-2006, 06:52 PM
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I think she may have developed some feelings for him. This happens to some people. The more they spend time together, the more fond your friend became of the guy, then the fondness could have developed further, into love.
I would say the same, if she didn't fall for him, or she only liked his company or considered him like a friend, then she would have never felt jealous, instead she would have been happy that his ex is back and she would now be free but this didn't happen!!!
Obviously, she is in love with him
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Old 08-22-2006, 05:25 AM
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I hope pretending cannot turn to love because it can embarass a lot of persons. Imagine that you're cheating on your hubby and suddenly, you fall in love with the guy! I don't even want to imagine what it can be!!! Some time ago, i thought that i was in love with the guy i'm having an affair and it was a terrible shock for me
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Old 08-22-2006, 05:47 PM
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I think that since your friend has spent so much time with the guy, she has started liking him, and obvioulsly started loving. The very fact that she is jealous proves it all. Dont people say that love starts with friendship? Did you ask your friend if she loves that guy?
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Old 08-23-2006, 07:15 AM
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It can be physical attraction, love or the simple fact that he is possessive that can cause that reaction. Jealousy doesn't automatically mean that there is love. I'm a very possessive person and the only fact that my husband talks to another woman will make me sick. I don't think i love my husband anymore
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