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Old 08-30-2005, 07:38 AM
jamie jamie is offline
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Hello Everybody,
Everything in my life is going ok till our family is unite. We are quite happy with our life. But suddenly because of some dispute between my parents they have decided to take divorce. Since, my parents got divorced, nothing in my life is the same anymore. Will it always be this hard? I am in great dilemma! Please guide me!

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Old 08-30-2005, 07:40 AM
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Lightbulb I am in great dilemma , Please help!
Well it is very certain that after a divorce, your everyday life can feel confusing and very dull. It may not seem like it now, but dealing with all of the changes will get easier with time passing. Thus ,many changes that come with divorce are hard to accept all at once. Therefore, You will be needing time to think about things and it can help to have someone to talk to. It is especially very important that you can understand that you are not responsible for your parent's divorce. There are some ways that divorce might change your life such as Custody in which arrangements and visitations , you may only be able to see your parents on certain days that were decided by the court, due to which your parents may be sad and preoccupied for a while after the divorce. You probably won't see one of your parents as much as you did before the divorce. Due to this, you might have trouble You may have trouble concentrating in school. Or since, you may have to move and you may have to change schools. Also you may be having different kind of relationships with your grandparents, aunts, uncles or other family members. Or incase one or both of your parents may be dating , or if your family finances maybe strained.
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Old 10-27-2005, 04:27 PM
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That was really a good piece of advice .
I sincerely feel now that I have come to thr right place to get myself of this situation .
Thanks again .
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Old 10-28-2005, 09:52 PM
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Default Life goes on!!!!
Life & time waits for no one & time is a great healer.
These 2 sayings say it all for u .
Let time take its own course & everything will be back to normal.
Maybe you are facing a rough patch due to your parent's divorce but believe me , everything will get into place once you get on with life .
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Old 11-20-2005, 07:45 PM
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Default Re:I am in great dilemma, Please help!
U are 100%right jenny. Time is a big healer and is capable of filling every wound.
I think jamie will be allright with time. As the incidence is fresh it must haunting him as there is lot of emotional problems occured atthe time of divorce.
Lets hope that everything will be all right for him.
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Old 11-20-2005, 07:50 PM
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Hello Everybody,
Everything in my life is going ok till our family is unite. We are quite happy with our life. But suddenly because of some dispute between my parents they have decided to take divorce. Since, my parents got divorced, nothing in my life is the same anymore. Will it always be this hard? I am in great dilemma! Please guide me!
How old are you.?? How long ago did they divorce??
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Old 03-16-2006, 01:54 PM
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This may be hard at first but you'll feel better also. It is imporatant that accept the situation. Once you are able to, you will begin to recover.
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Old 03-20-2006, 05:22 AM
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It's just natural that you feel this way now. But you'll adjust later. Try to focus on the positive things instead. Try to better yourself. Keep yourself busy with activities that are good for you. Then one day you'll see that you feel better already.
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Old 04-01-2006, 12:40 PM
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It is only normal that you feel that way but don't get yourself depressed. Don't try to bring back what you had , instead try to adjust in order to make the most of your situation. You will only feel worse if keep thinking how bad things are. Do and improve on things which you have control over. Like if you're still studying, try to get better grades so you'll have a better future.
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