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Old 03-18-2006, 02:24 AM
cicada26 cicada26 is offline
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My friend met this guy through another friend. This guy seems to be interested in her but he just keeps on popping in and out of sight. Sometimes he would call and see her three days in a row then get lost again for a week. Then call her again the next week. The friend who introduced her to him said that this guy really likes her. But my friend is confused by his actions. What can be said about this guy? Does he really like my friend? If yes, why does he do this going in and out of sight thing?
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Old 03-18-2006, 06:01 AM
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Maybe they just need to meet and find out for themselves:)
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Old 03-19-2006, 04:14 AM
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I think your friend should give it some time. If this guy really likes your friend, he will find time to be with her often and consistently as they get to know each other better.
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Old 03-21-2006, 09:10 AM
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she shud talk to him directly...and tell him to spend more time with her...then only she can be sure about his character...don go by his friend's words....friends ll always support each other......
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Old 03-26-2006, 03:32 AM
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Maybe he's just busy. Observe his actions in the coming weeks if he becomes consistent. If it's still the same, she can ask him his intentions are so it will be clear to her. From there she can gauge if she can take what he has to offer to her. If he promises to be there more, see if he does. Or maybe he could just be full of promises, then he will not be dependable so she'd be better off without him.
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Old 03-30-2006, 09:55 AM
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just be frank to the guy and ask him what he wants and is he really loving her r not
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Old 04-05-2006, 03:08 PM
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moonrise's suggestion is good...this way she wouldn't be waiting for so long...she will know what he really wants from her...or what he has to offer...
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Old 04-06-2006, 03:01 AM
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He could really be busy but she must still ask him so she'll understand him.
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Old 04-12-2006, 01:57 AM
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Being frank and honest is better. This way you avoid false expectations.
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Old 06-29-2006, 06:53 AM
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Yeah she should ask him..why not go out with him and question him..maybe he's just flirting,,they alwways do these things in that case..i dunno if he's busy but you always find time for the one you love..he's not serious with her..
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