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Old 08-30-2005, 07:34 AM
tanya tanya is offline
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Hello Everybody,
Earlier whenever i used to read about divorce or family dispute in newspaper and magazine i feel that this is not normal, but since my parents got divorced i'm quite relived. Could anyone tell me that this type of feeling is normal or not.

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Old 08-30-2005, 07:36 AM
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Smile Is it normal?
Many times, when parents get divorced it has been due to either they have been arguing or fighting a lot. Thus, in some families ,there may even have been physical violence, alcohol problems, or other situations that created stress in the home. Therefore, after the divorce or separation, it is very normal to experience feelings of relief as your environment becomes less stressful and more steady. :)
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Old 09-16-2005, 05:36 AM
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Sure this can be very normal. Mabye you disliked the fighting that was going on in the house. And are glad to see that finally both your parents are happy and at peace?
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Old 09-19-2005, 04:45 AM
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I somehow feel that this is not normal, but since, my parents got divorced, I 'm quite relieved .Is this normal?
this is very normal, mabye now the stress and anxiety is over and you feel relieved. And finally like trev said mabye everyone is at peace now...
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Old 09-26-2005, 03:14 AM
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What happens is when you see tension all around you and when there is utter chaos and confusion all engulfing you, any kind of descision would bring solace to you. That is exactly how you are feeling.....I'm sure you must have witnessed chaotic situations at home. ....Thus today once when finally a descision has been taken by your parents, you are feeling relieved...........There is nothing to feelo guilty about. This is absolutely normal ....
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Old 10-29-2005, 07:05 AM
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What happens is when you see tension all around you and when there is utter chaos and confusion all engulfing you, any kind of descision would bring solace to you. That is exactly how you are feeling.....I'm sure you must have witnessed chaotic situations at home. ....Thus today once when finally a descision has been taken by your parents, you are feeling relieved...........There is nothing to feelo guilty about. This is absolutely normal ....
Well that is a psycological condition that u r talking about , Pride.
It happens many a times in a person's life .
So its perfectly normal-tanya
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Old 03-10-2006, 06:16 PM
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i think trev could be right...i is possible that you've just ha enough of the fighting so you felt relievd that it will stop now...
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