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Old 03-17-2006, 03:37 AM
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I have a friend who just gets into a relationship quite easily. This morning she meets this guy. Then tomorrow he's her boyfriend. And then a week after, they break up. Then this epidose repeats again with some other guy. This breaks my heart because I think she deserves more. She's an educated person. She's a dentist. And she's blessed with good looks. What can I do or tell her? I really want tp help my friend.
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Old 03-17-2006, 04:37 PM
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She shoudl go into therapy there is a reason why things arent working out. SDooner or later she will feel guilty adn depressed and maybe she shoudl talk to someone.
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Old 03-18-2006, 12:03 AM
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You could tell her to take it slow. If she meets a guy she should get to know him better first before getting into a relationship. See if the guy is worthy and if he's just playing or wants a relationship. Having a reputation as being easy isn't good for a woman also. No one might take her seriouly anymore. This will make it hard for her to find a guy who will be there for her and have a true relationship with her.
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Old 03-22-2006, 01:31 AM
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If she doesn't know it yet, make her realize what she's been doing. Then tell her to go for a more lasting relationship instead. Getting to know a guy first would be better than getting into a relationship first and knowing the person later.
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Old 03-22-2006, 06:05 AM
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Some people just tend to "fall" into love quickly. Maybe she needs to figure out why shes like that.
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Old 03-22-2006, 06:23 AM
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dont get tensed i think she is matured enough and she can choose her way out its better if you suggest her once more
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Old 03-23-2006, 05:12 AM
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She could just be having a good time in her life, if she is young just wanting to be with different people exploring different paths. Now if she sits there and crys her heart out thinking this was the only guy for her i might be concerned - but if not she might just be having fun
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Old 06-28-2006, 11:10 AM
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I think you friend might be rushing in her relationships..she needs to take things lightly, slowly at first..of course she might be a serious girl wanting a long lasting relationship but not all guys want the same thing... whenever a boy sees a good looking gal, he just wanna spend some nice time with her, even though he might have his girl..one's not enough.. she better watch out,,seems she's only getting the bad eggs..
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Old 06-28-2006, 11:56 AM
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let her lived her life she has the right to enjoy hrself SO LET HER
why bother to ask her to stop she is educated and knw what is best for her so let her on her own
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Old 06-28-2006, 12:58 PM
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i think this is something which she should realize by herself. Guys would think of her like a cheap gurl and this is definitely not good for her own self image. She is educated but may not mature enough to realize what she is doing is wrong
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