i have had friends who went through marriage councelling and it worked wonders for them, took them about 2 moths to find someone that really helped them though

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MArriage counceling can help, because the marriage councelor sticks it to both the man and the woman. there is no ganging up and each other realizes what they are doing wrong and understand each other better.

ya it will really help you sort out what will happen and how should you act for each action to hold your married life

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I have a friend going now, but I think she is just tired of being married to him. I don't think it will work, if both parties are not willing to give it 100%.

You are right, it won't work if they both don't believe it is worth working for. Both people have to want the marriage and the therapy to work or it won't.

I didn't go, I should have but I didn't. I think now I could have, just because I loved her. At the time that didn't seem like enough, now it seems like a small price to pay.

I think it is something that both sides want to do to really make it work. I also think that both need to agree on who they see. If one doesnt like the counselor, it might not work..

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I think it only works if both the people going WANT it to work. I went to two sessions of marriage counseling with my ex-husband before we split up and he just joked around and lied about everything. It just made things worse.

Am still very young but i have heard that marriage councelling helps lots of couple invarious ways i think you you must go for it...