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Old 03-13-2006, 11:08 AM
argentite argentite is offline
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My cousin and his wife has been married for only a few months. But they are in a hurry to have a child. For whatever reason they haven't been able to conceive yet. His wife wants to adopt a baby. My cousin is a bit hesitant. Should he give in to his wife by agreeing to adopt a baby?
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Old 03-13-2006, 12:02 PM
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adoption is not a temporary affair a lifetime of commitment is required and if at a later stage one has a child of one's own how impartial one can be.A child demands time effort and money,are they ready to give it all to an unknown kid.If the doubts are well discussed and they are still keen then adoption can be good experience.
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Old 03-13-2006, 01:05 PM
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You may have a point, foxxyy. I think financially my cousin and his wife aren't that stable yet. They are only starting to save up for a house. As for their earnings, I don't think it's that high yet, maybe just enough for everyday expenses.
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Old 03-13-2006, 05:35 PM
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i don't think they are ready to adopt a baby...they may be willing but i think they will only face difficulties later on...it would be better if they just wait for their own baby...anyway, they were just married for a few months...they should just enjoy each other first before taking on another member of the family...
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Old 03-16-2006, 03:16 PM
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I think it's best if they wait for their own baby. Adopting now will only tie them down instead of enjoying each other while there's no baby to demand their attention yet.
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Old 04-02-2006, 01:18 PM
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I agree. They should just wait for their own baby.
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Old 04-02-2006, 01:50 PM
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I think it's best if they wait for their own baby. Adopting now will only tie them down instead of enjoying each other while there's no baby to demand their attention yet.
Yeah. It's best that they should just enjoy their time together while they aren't busy taking care of a baby yet.
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