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Old 03-13-2006, 11:04 AM
argentite argentite is offline
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My friend has been married for about 5 years now. She doesn't have any complains about her husband except one, he doesn't tell her where he goes. She knows he goes to work but she wants to know where else he goes. Like if he goes out with friends before going home or during weekends, where do they go. In short, she wants to know where he goes whenever he goes out. Is this fine or should she give him some space also?
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Old 03-13-2006, 11:53 AM
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I think it would be approriate on the part of the spouces to keep each other informed of each other's wereabouts.This avoids any unnecessary hassel in case of emergency and gives a feeling of security in the long run,when roomates inform each other why can't a life partner do the same.
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Old 03-13-2006, 06:05 PM
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it is ok to ask where her husband goes i guess...only don't let her bug her husband about it...she can always ask in a nice way...the husband on his part should be considerate to his wife by telling her where he goes so she will not worry or get suspicious of him...
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Old 03-13-2006, 10:20 PM
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SHe can ask him where he went but in a pleasant manner. Guys in general, don't want to be nagged. This could only result to arguments.
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Old 03-18-2006, 01:06 AM
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SHe should just talk to her husband. She should suggest to her husband that they lay the rules in their marriage. And she must include having to tell her where he goes.
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Old 03-21-2006, 12:53 AM
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If everything else is going fine then maybe she should just let him be. Sometimes we just have to be grateful for his best side and overlook his bad one.
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Old 03-29-2006, 12:42 PM
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If this really bothers her, she should talk to her husband about it. Maybe he'll understand and try to tell her next time.
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