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03-13-2006, 07:15 AM
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I have a collegue who is a married man. I always doubt his intentions.
He makes remarks in ways that make me feel like he is inviting me into relationship with him. He has not directly told me anything of that sort. But the way he looks and the specific words that are used by him makes me feel so uneasy. He is aware that I have a family with a husband and kids.  How do I deal with such person? I try not to have any talk other than the work related discussions. I try my best to avoid any discussions with him. It is only in extreme conditions that I go to him and talk about work. If I tell him directly that his intentions wont be entertained, he would fire back saying that he had not mentioned anything like that. He certainly has not. It is his indirect ways of saying things which has bothered me a lot. I can purely understand what he wants. But he is not worth leaving my family...
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03-14-2006, 06:40 PM
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your best bet would to take notes of conversations with him noting the times and date. And if he keeps it up then you should speak to your boss. Your case sounds like a typical sexual harrassment case to me and you should not have to go through that.
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03-15-2006, 01:19 AM
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Yeah. It's definitely harassment. For now, what you're doing is right. Talk to him only you really need to. Perhaps you can always have someone with you when you talk to him. This way he won't have a chance to say annoying things. If he does, you have a witness.
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03-16-2006, 12:10 AM
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what this guy is doing is 100 percent sexual harrassment. You have rights and deserve to be treated in a way that makes you feel safe and secure in your work enviroment. You need to report him or else things could get worse.
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03-16-2006, 02:10 PM
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If its happenign at work, you can file harassment against him and Im sure once he gets talked to he will step back. And remember no man or woman is worth you losing your family!!! Too many times this happens and it backfires on them.
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04-25-2006, 09:48 AM
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if you are sure you are not going to leave your family then why do you care him just act as if you did not get him and wait and see.......
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05-09-2006, 03:14 PM
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the guy is hitting on you? i would just avoid him as much as possible. is it really worth ruining this guys career with a sexual harassment suit? is he being vulgar or is he your superior and he won't give you a raise unless you be with him?
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