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Old 03-13-2006, 02:28 AM
argentite argentite is offline
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I know this woman who's husband in prison and has two kids. I think the relationship betwen her and her husband is over. She met a widower who has a kid too. But this guy doesn't have a stable job. Now he's asking her to marry him. Should she accept his proposal? There is love in the ralationship, but what about their responsibilities?
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:30 AM
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argentite,

This sounds very complicated. The first thing this woman needs to do is divorce her first husband. Then she needs to see where she is in life and what is most important to her. If it is love then she may find the will to survive on love alone. If it is taking care of her kids she may want to be more practical. What sort of job does this man do anyways?

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Old 03-13-2006, 06:28 PM
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she should perhaps think of her children first...i'm not saying she cannot love again but given the circumstances, her children will only suffer more...i don't think getting married to this guy is a good idea...at least, not until he gets a more stable job...and also not until she gets her separation legal first...
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Old 03-20-2006, 06:42 AM
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I think she should wait for the guy to find a more stable job first. She should also tell him that he is not marrying her alone but also her kids. If he can't accept her kids fully then she better be by herself. Her children will only suffer is she proceeds with this relationship.
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Old 03-20-2006, 02:19 PM
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they should settle enough to take care of there of there kids then only they can think of marriage
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Old 03-29-2006, 01:33 PM
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I agree with moonrise. The issue of the children should be resolved first they can think of getting married.
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Old 03-30-2006, 04:00 PM
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They must make sure first that their respective children will be taken care of before they decide to get married. It's highly possible that more children will come also so they must be prepared for this too.
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Old 06-15-2006, 02:43 PM
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I think she should think well before going for a relationship with a widower who doesn't have a stable job!!
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:55 AM
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Yeah, she might end up working both their own children, with the guy just free riding with her.
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Old 06-16-2006, 10:59 AM
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They are not ready to get into this relationship. They should make sure first that they will not get into deeper trouble.
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