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Old 03-13-2006, 02:18 AM
argentite argentite is offline
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Whenevr my friend talks about her ex, it seems to me that she still has feelings for him. She's babbling about him and she sometimes starts giggling like a teenager. She now has a boyfriend but she stil mentions her ex often. The thing is they didn't really have a formal breakup. So is my friend still in love with her ex?
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:31 AM
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argentite,

I wouldn't use a term as strong as love...but it does seem like she has some definate interest left in this guy. But that is really her problem to deal with at this point. If she is still interested then at some point she needs to address it, I would leave the situation as it is if I were you,

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Old 03-13-2006, 06:16 PM
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i guess cochise is right...let her face or realize for herself what her true feelings are...and be there when she needs a friend to talk to...
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Old 03-13-2006, 10:16 PM
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Just observe your friend and be a friend to her when she needs one. But as long as she doesn't do anything about her so-called feelings, there won't be any problem.
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Old 03-18-2006, 01:08 AM
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You can't really define what she's feeling. It's only her who knows so I suggest be a friend to her when she needs one.
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Old 03-21-2006, 12:51 AM
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Maybe she is or maybe she's not. But only she knows and can decide if she will do somethig about it.
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Old 03-31-2006, 02:02 PM
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You can't really define what she's feeling. It's only her who knows so I suggest be a friend to her when she needs one.
I agree. Just be her friend when she is in need of a friend.
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