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03-13-2006, 02:15 AM
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Here is the problem of my friend. She's married to a widower who has adult children. Now two of her husband's children from the first marriage don't have stable jobs. The result is they ask money from her husband often. Because of this some of their bills aren't paid on time. Can she make him stop giving money to his children? Wouldn't it be selfish of her? But what about their own financial needs?
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03-13-2006, 02:18 AM
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argentite,
It doesn't make sense for her to get involved here unless it is her money that is being used. The husband obviously cares for his children from his past marriage and it would be a mistake to get in between that relationship. If they really need the money she might want to talk to her husband about it, but simply saying he can't do it is not the way to approach this problem, cochise
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03-17-2006, 07:58 AM
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i also agree, regardless their are his children and they are a big part of his life. I mean if the kids are bankrupting them and they are going into debt to help his kids she may want to talk to her husband but a few hundred dollars here and there should not be any concern. He has a responsibility as a father to provide for his children
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03-23-2006, 01:46 PM
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She can ask him to, but that doesn't mean he'll agree. After all, they're his children. But I mean, just make sure they're not just leeching money off daddy and are actually going out and looking for jobs, etc. They need to learn they can't live off eachother for forever. It's a hard lesson, but once learnt, it sticks.
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03-23-2006, 01:47 PM
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03-28-2006, 02:28 PM
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I don't think you can stop a father from giving support to his children. It is his duty to do so especially when they are in need. What the wife could only do is to be supportive as well and see to it their needs are also provided.
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