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Old 03-13-2006, 12:52 AM
suzy74 suzy74 is offline
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My friend is confused. There's this guy that she's goes out with occasionally. He calls her almost every night and sends her short messages. He says he doesn't know how to court a girl. But he calls her baby. And sometimes also when they go out, he kisses her. Now she's confused if she should consider him as a bf or a friend?
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:36 AM
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suzy,

It sounds like right now he is somewhere in between. I don't think they are serious enough to consider him a boyfriend, but at the same time they are clearly more than just friends. Lets call him a friend with benefits,

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Old 03-13-2006, 03:05 AM
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I like what cochise said about calling him 'friend with benefits'. Don't let him abuse the benefits though.
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Old 03-13-2006, 06:13 PM
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yeah, he's definitely in between...he's not just a friend but he's neither her bf yet...
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Old 03-20-2006, 06:44 AM
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They are right. The guy is neither just a friend nor her boyfrend. He's somewhere in between.
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Old 03-20-2006, 02:18 PM
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ya i think he is not matured enough to accept such relationship then tell him what he wants
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Old 03-29-2006, 01:34 PM
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I think it is not good for a relationship to stay this way though.
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Old 03-30-2006, 03:58 PM
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I agree. The girl would be at the losing end in this situations.
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