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Old 03-13-2006, 12:47 AM
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My bestfriend broke up with her boyfriend. She did it because with her living abroad, she felt that there's no sense continuing their relationship, especially that he does not have plans of living where she is living now. Now she's missing his calls and what they had. Did she make a mistake in breaking up with him? Why is she feeling this way?
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:14 AM
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suzy,

It is normal for her to feel sad. She wanted to have a normal relationship with this guy and it just wasn't going to work out that way. She will probably experiance a period of regret and sadness, but in the end she should realize she made the best decision for her lifestyle,

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Old 03-15-2006, 03:04 AM
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It is natural to feel that way. But it is better to feel this now than later. She will be able to move on sooner and find a new life now.
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Old 03-15-2006, 03:58 PM
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When there is no future for the realtionship, it's always best to break up sooner so that each could move on. It will only hurt more if she prolongs the ralationship and still break up at the end.
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Old 03-17-2006, 01:39 PM
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Why wait for too long when it's inevitable that they would break up. It's only normal to feel sad since she just lost a love one. But things will get better in time and she'll get over him somehow.
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Old 06-09-2006, 05:56 AM
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she might have made a mistake or she is just lonely and not got alot of friends in her new place so that is why she is missing her boyfriend!! i would suggest she try and make lots of friends in her new area and start living her new life!!!
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Old 06-16-2006, 07:13 AM
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She's feeling like that because she still loves him. She did the right thing to broke up because because their relation ship doesn't mesn anything if they don't see each other!!
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Old 08-31-2006, 07:51 AM
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I guess that she is feeling lonely. But did she love that guy? If the answer is yes, then distance is not a barrier to love. After a break up, in the very first days, people have a tendency to miss their partners. Its obvious. You have spent so many things with your partner, shared so much - so its natural
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Old 09-01-2006, 07:36 AM
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time is the best healer of all.
she will forge him with time. maybe all those memories are still fresh in her mind and that is why she is missing him but once she gets back to her normal life and starts meeting poeple she will feel better abd will get on with it.
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Old 09-04-2006, 05:23 PM
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If their lives were going in 2 different directions, there was no use of staying together because she was already alone , before even breaking up.
In a way, she also did not want to make the move of going to live where her boyfriend is, I think she had already made up her mind before breaking up....
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