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Old 03-13-2006, 12:42 AM
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My cousin met this guy. She thinks he's great. He thoughtful, responsible and nice. But the problem is, her friends might not approve of him. Or worse, they might laugh at her if he becomes her boyfriend. Should she agree to become his girl?
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:33 AM
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suzy,

Friends who don't accept you and who you like for who you are aren't really friends. They may rib her a little, but true friends should understand she is happy and leave it at that,

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Old 03-13-2006, 03:13 AM
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If she really loves the guy, there is no reason to think twice about it. Her friends may disapprove at first but if they see that he makes her happy, they'll come to accept him.
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Old 03-13-2006, 06:07 PM
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true friends are always there for a friend...so if they see that she loves this guy, they will accept him eventually...
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Old 03-20-2006, 06:47 AM
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What she must ask herself is if she really loves the guy that she won't be embarrassed to be with him in front of her friends. This can happen at the beginning. If the answer is yes, then she should go on with the relationship. Later on, the friends will be able to adjust and may accept the guy.
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Old 03-20-2006, 02:16 PM
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i would suggest that she doe swhat her mind says and not her freinds
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Old 03-29-2006, 01:36 PM
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I agree. She should go for it if she really loves the guy and if she thinks he's worth it.
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Old 03-30-2006, 03:57 PM
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She should follow her heart. Friends should be able to understand that their standards aren't the same and accept her decision.
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