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Old 03-12-2006, 03:31 PM
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my friend has a boyfriend...but now something seems to be developing between her and a friend of hers...she knows the should stay away from this friend and be loyal but she says she just couldn't...now she's confused what she should do...

the thing is that she say's her boyfriend does everything a good boyfriend should do...on the other hand, this friend of hers seems to love her as much...she loves her boyfriend and she doesn't want to hurt him...but she's also falling for this friend who's showering her with all this attention and love...

what should she do??? who should she choose between the two???
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Old 03-13-2006, 10:38 PM
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She should listen to heart more carefully. Imagine who among the two she can't live without. I think the answer to this is the answer to her problem.
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Old 03-16-2006, 01:08 PM
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This is a little tricky. It's possible that she's just attached to this new guy because he's the one who's present. Or she might really be in love with him. What I suggest is that she take a time to be alone first. See who she misses most. Maybe she should choose that person.
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Old 03-21-2006, 01:49 AM
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The question is not whether who loves her more but rather, who she truly loves. This she has to find out for herself. Then she should choose him. No matter who she chooses one of them is bound to be hurt so she beeter choose sooner so that whoever she chooses to leave can move on with his life sooner.
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Old 03-21-2006, 02:23 AM
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I jut wonder, why did she allow this friend to get that close to her? Maybe she feels that something is missing in her relationship with her boyfriend even if he's doing all he can to be a good biyfriend. If so, she has to ask herself if she still loves him. If she does, maybe she should talk to her boyfriend first and try to make some adjustments so she'll be contented with their relationship.It could be that she just saw somethng inthis new guy that was not in her boyfriend. He became somewhat of a substitute for that.
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Old 06-22-2006, 11:35 AM
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she must go away from both of them for a while and see whom she misses most. who is the one who keep scoming to her mind and whom she wants to talk to all the time... this could help
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Old 06-22-2006, 01:34 PM
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I agree. If she doesn't see both of them. She will know by observing who she will miss and think of a lot.
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Old 06-22-2006, 11:22 PM
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Yeah, that's the best she can do right now. I hope she will make the right decision.
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Old 06-23-2006, 06:46 AM
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I think she must choose between the two if she doesn't want to be unhappy!! It will be hard for her but she can't play with her feelings like that!
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Old 06-23-2006, 08:51 AM
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she can't play with her feelings like that!
she's actually playing with the feelings of her boyfriend and this other guy.
i think she's just giving in to the temptation and adventurous feeling of betrayal and deceit. she finds it hard to be loyal.

what she needs is a good vacation...from herself
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