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Old 03-12-2006, 02:36 PM
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Hi All,
I have two marriages to attend in my relations in the coming months.
I have got a chance to party!!! Please give me some words of advice that I should give them. I wish to be a sensible advisor.

My mom advised me at the time of my marriage that I should keep my familiy's interest above mine! So you all might also have been given such advices. Please share it with me.
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Old 03-12-2006, 08:44 PM
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passate,

I'd tell them to always work as a team, and to always make sure they are on the same page. Communication is important in a marriage. A lot of arguements in a relationship start because one member feels like he/she isn't being heard.

But also tell them to enjoy themselves and each other...being a newlywed should be a good time. Have fun at the weddings,

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Old 03-13-2006, 01:17 AM
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Tell the couple to maximize their time alone because when the children come they will both be busy taking care of them. And of course, they should always talk through their differrences. Communication is important in every relationship.
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:34 AM
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Emphasize the importance of communication in the relationship. It is also important that they will be patient with each other. If they haven't lived with each other before, they will discover some irritating habits each has so they must be ready to give allowances for each other.
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Old 03-14-2006, 10:44 PM
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My advice would be that they should always be patient to each other's shortcomings. No one is perfect so they should just discuss what's wrong and try to change.
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Old 03-15-2006, 06:45 AM
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comunication comunitcation comunication
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Old 03-15-2006, 02:39 PM
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Thank you all...Communication, patience and team spirit--> Recepie for a satisfied married life!
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Old 03-17-2006, 06:24 AM
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just ask them to remain silent when any off them is shouting out this can reduce lot off tension
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Old 03-21-2006, 02:22 PM
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Family, a lot of the time, does come first. But whether it's just blood relatives, or paper relatives - that's your decision. A lot of people can be offended by that.

As far as advice in general to give to people as far as marriage - do what -you- want. On the wedding day itself, it's not the day for your family, it's a day for the couple, and they shouldn't hold back on their dreams. If they want a black dress instead of a white one - go for it! Don't always stick to the norm.
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Old 04-03-2006, 11:31 PM
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Just enjoy each other while you don't have children yet. And talk if there's a problem.
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