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Old 03-11-2006, 02:55 PM
argentite argentite is offline
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One of my cousins like this guy. And according to this guy's sister he likes my cousin too. But he isn't doing anything to show her this. My cousin really likes this guy so she's waiting. There were other guys asking her out but she turned them down. It's been about a year now and she' still waiting. Is this wise, to wait for someone she like to tell her he likes her too? Or should she move on?
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Old 03-13-2006, 01:38 AM
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I think your cousin should also see what's being offered to her. Don't let her wait for this guy. She just doesn't know maybe she'll find out this guy isn't even that great after she gets to know him. There might someone else who is for her and she just let him pass by.
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Old 03-13-2006, 02:25 AM
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argentite,

If this guy isn't making a move then I would tell your cousin to find a way to discover whether or not he is interested. If he is then I may recommend holding out for a little bit longer, but not much. She needs to move on with her life and as suzy said, take what is there for her. It would be foolish to spend her entire life waiting for what could have been,

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Old 03-13-2006, 07:21 AM
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Your cousin is adviced to end her anxiety. Waiting for a year is too much...
If she is waiting for the guy to ask her out, then she is doing a big mistake. Does she know that this guy is worth waiting?
Ask her to go ahead and tell that guy what she feels for him.Then, if he turns her down, give a damn to him.Move on. There are better guys around.
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Old 03-14-2006, 10:39 AM
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she can talk to the guy and express her feelings and tell him that she cant wait for long like this for him....and give him some time and ask him to let he rknow his decision....if he still doesnot accept then only she shud move on..........
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Old 03-15-2006, 01:33 AM
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She should entertain other guys and give them a chance to woo her. If there isn't anyone who can make her feel the way that he does. She can, not actually wait for him, but still give him a chance later if he decides to tell her how he feels. However, if someone better comes along before he does this, she should accept the other guy and forget this guy .
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Old 03-15-2006, 03:11 PM
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She can wait for him but this should not stop her from enjoying life and meeting other people. If she meets a guy she might be interested in before this guy proposes, she should just go for it rather than go on waiting. But I don't think she should go looking for love though. Let love find her.
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Old 04-25-2006, 09:52 AM
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she can wait for some more time and if its not going to work then she can move further
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Old 05-06-2006, 11:41 PM
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Wait for no one, he may not even worth it. She can't wait for a guy just because of something someone said, that is crazy! If she really likes him, maybe she should just ask him out. It's pretty simple, and a lot of guys need a push to get them going.
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Old 05-07-2006, 04:57 AM
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She either needs to talk to him, or move on. That is about the only thing she can do.. She shouldn't wait..
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