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Old 03-11-2006, 11:07 AM
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My cousin and her boyfriend have been going out for about five years now. My cousin wants to get married already but the guy seems not ready yet. You see, he is working for their family business and he seems to be controlled by his mom. What can my cousin do to get her bf to marry her. Is this even possible?
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Old 03-11-2006, 03:00 PM
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I think your cousin has to wait. You can't make someone marry you if he's not ready. This will only lead to problems later on. Or her bf might just feel pressured and break up with her.
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Old 03-11-2006, 10:57 PM
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she has to be patient and try not to pressure her boyfriend...this might only scare him away...
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Old 03-13-2006, 07:25 AM
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Oh...proposal for marriage when one is not ready will never get a positive answer...
Try to make the guy long for marriage. Make things seem to him that marriage is the only answer to the relationship between them. Sometimes, we've got to be clever to get our way out in relationships.
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Old 03-14-2006, 10:37 AM
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she should make her boy friend to talk to his mom and do something about it...if the b.f cannot do anything theni guess the girl can't do nothing much.............
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Old 03-19-2006, 04:21 AM
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Your cousin should be willing to wait for her boyfriend to be ready. Only then can they marry. Because if he's not, things can only go bad. Or he may decide to back away from her.
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Old 03-20-2006, 04:31 PM
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No absoultely not, I think it should be left up to the guy...anyways a bit old fashioned but that is my opinion.
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Old 03-20-2006, 11:24 PM
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She just have to wait for her boyfriend to decide when he' ready to marry.
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Old 04-25-2006, 09:28 AM
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she can ask him when can he marry her....or is there any possibility for marriage........if no jus break up
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Old 04-27-2006, 04:54 AM
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She should have to go for this . I think after the marriage Her husband might suppor her well
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