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Old 03-11-2006, 10:26 AM
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what if a couple has three kids already, all girls...the husband wants to have another one, a boy if possible...if only the wife will have her way, the three kids are enough already...but her husband really wants to try to have a son, should she give in to his idea?..
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Old 03-13-2006, 10:45 PM
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If they are financially capable of doing so, then why not. Although this will be a great sacrifice on the woman's part. It will be worth it when she sees the baby and her husband will be happy.
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Old 03-14-2006, 03:54 PM
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if she doenst want to have the child then she shouldnt have it. She should NOT have the child just to "make her husband happy." 3 children is enough for some people! Her and her husband can talk it over, but in the end she is the one that will ultimatly make the decision.
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Old 03-14-2006, 11:03 PM
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It's up to her to decide if she can handle another kid. If she's hesitant because of money and her husband has a solution to this then there is not porblem. But if her reasons can't be resolved, she can refuse to her husband's request. But she must explain everything to her husband in such a way that he would understand her completely.
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Old 03-18-2006, 12:55 AM
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First she should ask her husband if he will help in taking care of the baby. It is also important that they check if the cost of another baby if affordable right now. Last but not the least, she should ask herself whether she can taek on the responsibility of having another baby in the house. If the answer to the three is yes, then maybe she should agree. She must do it because she wants to not just to please her husband.
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Old 03-21-2006, 01:10 AM
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If they can afford it, she should consider it. However, there are other things to consider, like if she stll have the time to look after the baby and how other children will take it.
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