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Old 03-11-2006, 10:18 AM
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i know this guy who's in love with his girlfriends sister...he said he's really trying to stop his feelings 'cause he doesn't want to hurt his gf...but he said it seems that it's just getting stronger...what should he do?..he asked me but i didn't know what to say...
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Old 04-05-2006, 12:18 AM
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I think the thing to do if he's in love with somebody else is to break up with his current girlfriend. But I don't think it would be nice to court the sister. He should stay away at least for a while. If he still loves her after some time, I guess he can but I think the sister wouldn't be so receptive of the idea.
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Old 04-05-2006, 02:05 PM
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That is a big no-no...its not fair to his gf or the sister and blood is thicker than water just becuase he may have feelings for her sister she may not choose to cross that fine line and date him...so he should stop thinking about it and if he is not happy he should break up with her and move on to another girl.
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Old 04-06-2006, 04:33 AM
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That is a big no-no...its not fair to his gf or the sister and blood is thicker than water just becuase he may have feelings for her sister she may not choose to cross that fine line and date him...so he should stop thinking about it and if he is not happy he should break up with her and move on to another girl.
I think I agree with zemrat. You will only cause sisters to have a gap. The thing to do I guess is to break up with his current girlfriend if he's not happy with her but he must forget about the sister.
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Old 09-04-2006, 09:44 AM
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OMG! what a story. How about the girlfriend's sist? Does she love that guy too? Whichever way, the guy will end up hurting both sisters's feeling. And even make them fight between them. Is the guy sure that its not love but rather a mere infatuation?
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Old 09-04-2006, 04:04 PM
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The guy should be sure about his feelings.He should know that the mere fact of breaking up with one sister for another one could bring out chaos in the relationship between the two sisters.
It is preferable to break with his girlfriend and find another girl.
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