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03-10-2006, 06:30 PM
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My husband makes mess at our house. I am the one who has to pick up the things and pieces he scatters all over. Sometimes i just get tired. I wonder if he'll notice if I don't continue to pick things for him. Will this have an effect on our realtionship?
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03-10-2006, 10:14 PM
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In as much as you think that he won't notice, he will. But perhaps it would be better not to pick up his mess maybe for just a few days so that when he sees it he will realize his bad habits and maybe reform. Or you can just talk to him. This way he'll know what on your mind. If he really loves you, he will change. After all this is just one minor issue in the household.
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03-13-2006, 06:37 PM
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of course he'll notice...this might even be the first thing he'll notice...anyway, try getting him to help you or to stop making mess in the house...talk to him he might just listen and things will be easier for you...
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03-13-2006, 09:00 PM
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I tried that and he noticed all right he would start yellign and screaming. Its the mentality and the way they are bought up! Unfortunately the wife winds up suffering. Mine was raised by many sisters and a mother who never knew how to stop spoiling him. Its a shame but when I look back Im glad I dont haev to pick up after him anymore and I will never date a man who isnt somewhat neat. Now the little things annoy me...
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03-20-2006, 06:35 AM
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Men I think really notice these things. It's just that they are lazy enough to do anything about it or they just avoid making some mess. But it can never hurt to try to make him to stop making his mess and start to help cleaning up the house.
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03-20-2006, 02:22 PM
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this is not a good habit for your husband to continue just ask your husband to maintain neatness
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03-29-2006, 01:27 PM
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Well, everyone must help in order to keep your home clean. No matter how many times you keep on cleaning it if another mess comes after it, you wouldn't run out of messes to clean up. You just have to make your husband understand this. And maybe you should remind him that part of marriage is sharing, including the work and responsibilites in keeping your home clean.
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03-31-2006, 02:00 PM
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He will notice alright. But if you don' tell him to help, I don't think he will. Just make him understand how much you need his help. Sometimes guys need to be told what to do when it comes to household chores.
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