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Old 03-10-2006, 05:24 PM
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i have heard people breaking up because of money...some because they have so much, others don't have any...i mean how could this be that a couple would break up especially beacuse they lack money...shouldn't they work togethr instead???
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Old 09-12-2006, 03:10 PM
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I think that the people who broke about money has not understand what marriage is all about.They should know that if they are poor they are poor altogether,they should not try to find another partner to get money.
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Old 09-13-2006, 06:05 AM
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They can certainly work on the lack of moeny together.. But perhaps they want to leave each other and use money as an excuse, or maybe their main goal is not to save their love from any obstacle but to become richer, live in a luxurious life and not to worry about money. It all depend on each one's choices as objectives.
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Old 09-14-2006, 10:59 AM
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It is not because of money if you very well analyze the situation, it all depends on the person, and if that person is a money minded, then he would definitely want to break up rather than making effort to earn money!
There has been so many couple who have been working hard to realize and making their dreams come true!
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Old 09-14-2006, 11:08 AM
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Financial constraints coz some kind of tension among the couple and this cause frequent dispute which most of the time degenerate and eventually might coz them to break up.
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Old 09-21-2006, 10:01 AM
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You are right. Some couple work too much in trying to make a lot of money but forget to live their life and neglect the relationship and in the long run things becomes to degenerate. Others don't have enough money and it makes the couple unhappy and again problems arises.

I think money a matter of greater concerned in a couple.
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Old 09-21-2006, 11:29 AM
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Well, i'd say that at times, people are sick - they dont know what they want! Indeed, what you said is absolutely right. As a couple, partners should stand as one, and they should work together for the best of their marriage, of the couple. But many a times, we find them fighing against themselves. Thats so stupid! I believe that in today's world, people get married just for the sake of getting married, their love is not strong. Thats the bitter truth.
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Old 09-26-2006, 07:11 AM
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Some couple don't want to patch up their money. Each one do the expenses separately sometimes conflicts arises due to the mismanagement of their revenue. It causes disputes and severe discussions which might degenerate.
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Old 09-26-2006, 07:20 AM
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Yes,that's true, there's a thread on money that destroys couples on the forum. Couples don't simply know how to deal with money sometimes and that kills the relationship ... So sad
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Old 09-27-2006, 12:02 PM
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I think i read that thread. I'm not sure though. But i think even if we tell some people how to deal with money in a couple, they won't listen. some of us think that money is a very easy thing to deal with, so sad
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