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Old 03-10-2006, 05:21 PM
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my friend told me she could be in love but she's not sure...she said she met this guy over the internet and thye just couldn't stop from communicating...thye haven't met in person yet but she feels she's already cheating...she asked me if this was cheating...i could not answer her for i was confused about her situation as well...i mean i couldn't imagine her situation...

so what say you...what should i tell her...
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Old 08-30-2006, 06:31 AM
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Is it that your friend is married? And while chatting with the guy on the web, she has the feeling of being unfaithful to her husband? Is the situation as such?
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Old 08-30-2006, 12:22 PM
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It depends how she is considering the guy she met online. If he's only just a friend like any other friend then it's fine. But if she is fancy the guy, even though they never met, she is thinking of having an affair with him, then in this case i find that it would be considered as cheating.

Coz the intention of having an affair with the guy is here in her mind, she might not have done anything so far, but the ideas are there and she fancy them.
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Old 08-31-2006, 06:57 AM
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my friend told me she could be in love but she's not sure....

She mentioned the word "love". It means she is thinking of an intimate relationship with the guy on the net. However she might not be sure at this moment but her attitude towards the guy is "love" and "intimacy". Therefore in my point of view it is cheating.
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Old 08-31-2006, 07:11 PM
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It's called LUST, she thinks that she loves the guy.It happens sometimes but most of the time, when these people meet, they just do not match.The statistics speak for themselves.
If she's married, I think that she's looking for some fantasy in her life knowing that in the end it will not work.But in the meantime, it feels so good to be desired..
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Old 09-03-2006, 04:06 PM
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This is cheating and nothing else, if she hid the fact from her husband that means she is having an affair and she would even meet him if the guy would ask her to. I am saying so cause i have myself fallen for someone who i met online and would be marrying in some months.
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Old 09-06-2006, 08:01 AM
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It depends what kind about conversation they are exchanging while chatting.

If is about general things about life, the world, politics, their interest...etc..Then it's normal.
But if it is about their privacy, sex, they exchange love messages, then it is obviously cheating.
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Old 09-06-2006, 08:04 PM
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If it is love conversation I think that she is cheating.You just cannot have any kind of conversation with anyone on the road.On the internet also it is the same.If you are having erotic conversation I consider it as cheating unless the spouse is aware of it.
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Old 09-07-2006, 10:40 AM
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I don't think it's cheating yet. Coz they have not met and they are not indulge in any act. This might come afterwards, but for time being it's not. If she thinks she is cheating most probably she is thinking to have an affair with him.
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Old 09-07-2006, 01:43 PM
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It is cheating not only thru the internet but she met him as well....and you never know who you meet, there are a lot of sicks out there so tell her be careful!
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