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03-09-2006, 09:20 AM
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my husband and i had this argument once...well, he was invited to the christening of his friend's baby...upon hearing this i immediately suggested we get a gift for the baby...
then he asked if i would go with him...the thing was his friend never mentioned that i should go with him...so i told him that i think i was not invited...he said, he felt lazy to go there and asked me if he should go...i told him that it was his decision... on the christening day, we were a bit busy...then at about half an hour before the invitation, i asked him if he was going...he said he will not... then later in the evening, i asked him why he didn't go...he said he wanted me to say that he should go...and he added a little sarcastically, that i didn't give him my support... i was really annoyed...i mean how can he say that when it was even me who suggested that we get a gift for the baby...i didn't say he couldn't go...i told him it was up to him... should have i told him to go?..or that he should go?..
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03-09-2006, 05:05 PM
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Buddy, it was just an excuse that the husbands throw up every now and then.
You might have encountered similar excuses in other situations. I think it is a universal phenomena. My husband is too good at it. I have learnt to over-smart him in due course of my marriage. I would suggest you that you give some diplomatic solutions and statements while answering him. Put the ball in his court. Tell him everytime, "it's your wish", 'whatever you say'....etc.Make these statements echo in his ears so much so that after a while, he would not blame you.
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03-10-2006, 10:57 PM
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It is true what passate said. Just keep your cool and endure the tantrum. It could just be one of those moody days.
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03-11-2006, 03:17 PM
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Just let his bad mood pass. Don't confront it with anger to avoid a fight.
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03-21-2006, 09:06 AM
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well there is nothing wrong in leaving the decision to him....but there are some people who want there mate's support in every thing ...they expect a lot....i think ur hubby must be of tht kind...so i guess there is nothing wrong in giving a little extra support in such situations from now on....
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04-25-2006, 09:23 AM
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common if he want your support just give him what is there to get annoyed ...
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