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Old 03-09-2006, 09:00 AM
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my friend has a good and strong relationship with her husband...when i asked what their secret was...she said she has one secret...she makes her husband jealous from time to time...

i was a bit shocked...i never knew one can do that...make someone jealous on purpose...anyway, she said it works...

but doesn't petty arguments lead to a big fight sometimes?..i wonder if this is really good for a relationship...
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Old 03-16-2006, 01:58 PM
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I think jealousy may help her husband not to take her for granted. But I don't think it's good to do it on purpose. She is just torturing her husband. If she truly loves her husband, she wouldn't want to do that.
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Old 03-16-2006, 02:54 PM
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What she's doing is bad in my opinion. If her husband really loves her, he will love her even without going through the feeling of jealousy.
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Old 04-02-2006, 01:27 PM
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I don't think it's good to make her husband jealous. This may backfire on her. He might not trust her anymore.
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Old 05-30-2006, 07:50 AM
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I don`t think that its the best solution to make her boyfriend jealous all the time... One day he'll be fed up with that, or maybe that he'll do the same and she won't appreciate it .... Did she ever thought that if he does the same thing who would she react??? I don`t think that she will have a good reaction!
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Old 05-30-2006, 08:11 AM
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jealousy is like spices it can be added occasionally but too much will destroy a relationship............
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Old 05-30-2006, 08:16 AM
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The consequences of jealousy can be sometimes harmful!!!if her husband loves her really then he wont think about someone else..your friend must trust her husband
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Old 05-30-2006, 12:35 PM
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Oh...i can't heard anymore the word "jealousy"... I couldn't go out anywhere without him, i lost all my friends because of my ex jealous guy...that was horrible, when we were together at parties he was always keeping an eye on me and as soon as somebody he doesn't know was talking to me, he was coming to give me a kiss just to show that I was his!Since that, i can't bear jealous guy...
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Old 06-01-2006, 09:08 AM
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What you have lived with this guy was very awful rachel..i will never react like this with my g/f otherwise she will live me! I'm a bit jealous but i control myself, coz i really love her and i trust her!
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Old 08-27-2006, 05:46 PM
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Jeolousy is ' good' but to an extent. You have to use it from time to time, else it ' kills' the relationship. And then, dont they say that jealousy is a proof of love???

Anything in extent is bad.
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