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Old 03-09-2006, 08:53 AM
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well, women usually want to take care of their men even at the early stage of the relationship...we prepare food for them...we even clean up his place sometimes...this is when some problems come up...

my friend did this and her boyfriend got angry at her...she was really puzzled...she thought she did a good thing organizing things at his place...and putting order to his messy place...

so was what she did wrong?..was it too much?..
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Old 03-16-2006, 02:04 PM
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While some guys appreciate it when their girlfriends cleans their mess up, others want to maintain their privacy. Your friend doesn't have to take it personally. It' just a guy thing I guess.
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Old 03-16-2006, 02:53 PM
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Some guys don't want their territory to be invaded, even by their girlfriends. If her boyfriend is like this, I guess she should just accept it.
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Old 04-02-2006, 01:29 PM
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Yeah. She should just be careful in not doing too much next time.
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Old 09-06-2006, 12:21 PM
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Well, guys like it when girls take care of them, but then there is a limit to everthing. Guys do love their girlfriends, but they dont like us to step in their 'private garden'. They dont like it when we do things our way. Remember ' Man are from Mars and Women are from Venus'? Things are different on the two planets
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Old 09-06-2006, 04:37 PM
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May be she is doing too much too fast.Sometimes guys do not want people to enter into their private territory and therefore they adopt a defensive attitude.It is better for the girl to give the guy some freedom by not putting her nose in his things too much.
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Old 09-07-2006, 08:48 AM
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I don't like that people intrude my private life as well. When you date someone, it doesn't mean you have to share everything with him. It doesn't mean that he can see all your secrets. There may be some things that you want to hide, especially when you had an ex whom you loved a lot.

Of course, i'm talking about less than a yr relationships lol
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Old 09-07-2006, 10:25 AM
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There may be some things that you want to hide, especially when you had an ex whom you loved a lot.
You have all the right to have a past, to have known someone before. This is a normal thing and that person with whom you are involved may have also a past story. Under no circumstances this should affect the present relationship if both of them are ready to live a new relationship with a fresh new begining.
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Old 09-07-2006, 01:42 PM
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You have all the right to have a past, to have known someone before. This is a normal thing and that person with whom you are involved may have also a past story. Under no circumstances this should affect the present relationship if both of them are ready to live a new relationship with a fresh new begining.
Yes, it's true, but i'm the kinda person who likes to hide 50 % of things which happened in my past story and i get kinda mad when people try to intrude in that 'secret' world. It's true that the past should not affect the present, but there are people like that ...
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Old 09-07-2006, 03:50 PM
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well..sme boyfriends are such..cannot admire and respect..and even appreciate wateva their gurlfns do for them..dats the nature of men..they dont like women and cnt apprediate them,yet they nd them!..
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